Hey frenchTart. I was reading about a WordPress plugin earlier today and noticed that you had posted a reply about your buddypress compatible plugin! We would love to use it for our website as its just what we are looking for! If you are interested in releasing it then please get back to me. Jayty
I could probably provide you the source and some basic instructions but it's incredibly rough around the edges at the moment so it won't be very easy for you to setup. It also makes a lot of assumptions (e.g. server running on linux, etc). Are you reasonably proficient at php? If so, it could be woth a try :)