I am looking for a plugin so i can change the order of my plugins, i am currently having a problem with two plugins loading in the wrong order, so they don't work together, but i need both.
http://dev.bukkit.org/server-mods/pluginreloader/ - Might do the trick. Make sure the plugins you request don't already exist.
but hard t but hard to sort through so many plugins, and i did do a search, but couldn't find anything, also the plugin i am after changes the load order of plugins on server start up, not after the server has started.
As suggested earlier, if you edit the plugin.yml in the jar of each plugin to have a softdepend for a plugin(s) it should load after or even a loadbefore for the plugin(s) it should load before.